guy gets mad when he does not get what he wants from a female. What does he normally want? SEX! If they don’t get it you won’t hear from them again because their objective has failed. I understand that looks are the first step of attraction but males do not even want to get to know a female better. A man, or should I say a boy, isn’t willing to work for a female anymore and it is our fault!
You know what is sad, that at first I thought males devaluated our value. But in reality, females have devaluated their own value. How? By making it so easy with guys and giving them exactly what they want. So now females are suffering from the pain females have caused. If females made it harder for a guy to have sex with them, males would appreciate us more and we would have more value. But since some of you make it so easy, that is all they want from a female now days. So yes it is our fault for letting guys get too comfortable and now they can have their cake and eat it too. Ladies, if you were smart you would make him work for it. Have self-respect! How do you expect for a man to respect your body if you cannot even respect it yourself? Yes, I blame the females that are easy and out there for the way the rest of us get treated. Thanks to you all, the good ones get treated just like you. Truth is, we are the same specie but we are not the same breed.
If more females closed their legs, mouth and open their eyes the good females will be treated like we deserve. We would have a better understanding with men and it would be no lies, more communication, more sex, less cheating and more appreciation. But easy females give males reason to keep mistreating us, lying and kicking us to the curve. Before, it started as getting to know each other, falling in love and then sex. Now is sex, maybe we can get to know each other and if we are lucky we will fall in love. Ladies all you want is to feel loved, trust me I want to be loved too. But just having sex with a guy is just setting you for failure. You think you are playing their same game but in reality you are ruining it for your future and the rest of us. Trust me, you will get tired of being out there and when you are ready to settle down you will have to find a “captain-save-a-hoe.” So make it harder by making him work. If you know you are worth it, show him! Do you a favor as well as the rest of us. This is why the belief in marriage has decreased and pregnancy has increased. Do not be a trend, be smart, and make the right choice.
Note: I am not bashing women but I am telling you how I see it. We have allowed men to treat us the way they do because of our actions. So change your mentality now before you start destroying our society even more. Men do what we allow them to do and this happened by following their games. Stop it and stand up!