I must admit that a way to everyone's heart is food, not just for males. However, I must tell you all that I do not know how to cook. Well, I do very few dishes but overall I don't know how to. But anyways, I wish I did so I could satisfy my man that way. Can I satisfy you by taking you out to eat? That counts right? At the end of they day is food! But I must learn, maybe when I have significant other. If you know how to cook please your man that way. Cook his favorite meals, keep him and his stomach happy
If you do not like giving head you better start enjoying it. I am sure that some of you do not like to do it. But, if you LOVE your man you better LOVE pleasing him. Get all those negatives thoughts out of your head and get to it. Some guys say that they do not like or enjoy head. I believe it is only because they have not received some "bomb" ass head yet. So ladies I suggest you keep on practicing. I mean what will happen when is that time of the month and you are against having sex on your period? You better learn how to suck some dick. After all you can always give him head while he is playing video games, watching sports or even smoking or drinking. Keep it spontaneous they love it when you just take it out and get to work.
b. New things
Just like it sounds, try new things. This can be different things such as; new positions, places and fantasies. Maybe go have sex on the beach, in the rain, in the pool, in a public place or who knows, just be adventurous. You might be shy have sex in public places. But, that is your man you better let him know that he can get it whenever and wherever. Every person has fantasies, so make your significant others fantasy come true.
3. Video Games
As childish as this sounds, you must please your man this way. Some of us will always be "big" kids. I know some people that are in their 40's still playing video games. Stop getting jealous of them playing video games. Don't you rather him play video games than him going around and sneaking around with other females? Okay, I thought so. If you want to be a great girlfriend or wife you should definitely spend some money on at least one game and surprise him. If I had a boyfriend I would of bought him that MW3, guys love it.
I must admit I do not like sports at all. Specially basketball and football. However, if my man wants to watch it that is fine. I will not be paying attention but I will be right by his side. By the way, if you do not like sports this is a perfect way to give him head so you do not get bored. If you are a female and like sports, this is a perfect way to bond with your significant other as you have a common interest.
This right here is HUGE. You have to show him that you will be there for him no matter what. That you will support his dreams, you will be there anytime and any day that he needs you. Be a good woman and pick him up when he falls and always have your hand out and ready to help him. I believe this right here is essential for a long lasting relationship. Anyone can have physical and sexual attraction. But when it comes to an emotional connection not everyone can have. Connect with your man at a level that no one else can. Show him that you love him and you will always be his ride or die.
Remember actions speak louder than words and when it comes to affection actions must be greater. Affection can be anything you do or say to show him how much he means to you. Examples of affection can be, but are not limited to; kissing, holding hands, writing him a love letter, giving him a foot massage, caressing his body, feed him desserts, have quality time, listen to him and/or tell him you love him randomly.
Money is extremely important but not when it comes to a relationship. However, if your man is at his lowest and having financial problems you should be there for him. I am not saying take care of him forever. I am saying help him till he gets on his feet. What man can reject a woman that is there for him when no one else is? Remember that you know you love someone when you give them your last penny to make sure they are doing okay. The way I see it; If my man is doing okay then i am doing okay. But you better believe that if my man is doing bad and I am doing great he will be doing great too. I will ride for him, will you? Fellas, please do not bite the hand of the woman that feeds you. Specially if you are not using them and you truly love them. They are helping you from the heart because they genuinely love you. Do not take their kindness and love towards you for weakness.
Surprise your man. It can be from a home cook meal/candlelight dinner, sexy lingerie, newest video-game, etc. There is so many ways you can please and surprise your man and make him even more happy. This shows that no matter what you are doing you are always thinking of him and ways to make him happy.
Although a man is suppose to spoil a woman it is always nice to return the favor. Everyone loves to be spoiled every once in a while. You know your man better than I do. Therefore, spoil him with things he likes. Make him feel like no other woman can make him feel. Make him feel like you are the only woman for him and nothing else matters but y'alls happiness and future.
Do the things he likes to do, show interest. If those are his hobbies they are not going anywhere. Better learn to love it just like him. Go out there and try it with him or at least support it because they will always be there, the question is will you?
We all have habits and some of us will never let them go. Even though you might not like his habit, you should definitely try and accustom to it. For example. If your man likes to smoke and you don't agree with it, you might as well just get it for him or learn how to roll. Honestly, if you don't do it someone else will or that is how he will start hiding secrets because you do not accept what he does.
Note: At the end of the day the BEST way to please your man is TO ALWAYS BE THERE FOR HIM NO MATTER what. Be his support, be his right hand and most importantly be everything he wants you to be. But never stop being yourself!