Regarding myself, i was born blessed and with the world at my feet and i have dated people that came from nothing. Did my parents approve? Not at all because of the life-style that i am used to. But at the end of the day is my life and I know what I want. I never had a problem helping out until they started depending on me. If you have a job, and going to school and you are planning on your future, i can deal with that. But no job, school, no future and all parties? Please go somewhere NOT near me because you will stay exactly where you came from. If a man does not have money i will help him out because that is what a relationship is about. Help each other out, specially when one of them is down. However, do not depend on me. I am just helping you get on your feet. So do not abuse the privilege because i am seeing it as an investment. Get on your feet, have goals and ambitions.
A man is suppose to take care of a woman. What the heck is going on in today's society with men becoming lazy and comfortable with a woman taking care of them. Anyways, that is a whole different topic. Once again, two broke people cannot help themselves specially if neither of them have goals and things they want to accomplish for their future. At the end of the day money is not what keeps a relationship but is nice to know that when your significant other needs you, you are there for them no matter what. You are supporting them in times of need. Sometimes when you need someone they are never there and its all excuses. But what matters at the end of the day is that you tried your hardest, held their hand and did not let go while they where going through it.
Note: If you cannot be there for them at their lowest then you do not deserve to be there at their highest.