What I don’t understand is why people take your love for granted. I understand that when you are having a bad day or going through hard times you take it out on someone you love at times. But this doesn’t mean that you need to insult them or push them away. When you are at a low point is when you should want your significant other there for you at all times. When you are at your low, you want someone that will support you and will keep you from hitting the ground. Everyone wants to have a partner that will stick with you through thick and thin. But why is it that some men get rid of their women once they are back in their feet? Did they just use them while they were at their lowest? I mean seriously, why wouldn’t you want to keep a woman around that helped you get on your feet. At least you know that in the long-run when things get tough she won’t leave you by yourself. In a relationship, you must hold each other’s hand the entire time. Not only when times are good but also when times are bad. Also, you shouldn’t let a silly argument or a disagreement get in a way of a great relationship. If you find a simple way out of your relationship after having a great relationship overall; then it just makes the other person feel like everything has been a lie. What do you do when you realize your entire relationship has been a lie? What do you do when you realize the person that kept on telling you they loved you, really didn’t love you at all? What do you do when someone leaves you after you have accomplished great things together? Have you been used? Is he scared? Is he taking the easy way out? So many questions and not enough answers.
A man that truly loves you will never walk away from you without a fight. If someone walks away from you without an issue, they just probably never really loved you. I don’t understand how a man can sit here and fake an entire relationship. Makes the female fall so deeply in love then when you think you are in it for the long run they just give up on you like it is absolutely nothing. Is the man scared of commitment? Personally, I know I could never let someone I truly love go without trying, fighting, pain and tears. A man should always want to fight for his women. A man should never make his woman jealous of other females because all other females should be irrelevant. A man should always protect her and be the strong one in the relationship. Relationships are not perfect and they will never be. However, do not give up on a relationship when your ups are way higher than your downs. Don’t give up on a relationship were you have accomplished so many things together. Are you giving up on a relationship because maybe you just used to them for your own good? Let me guess, now that everything is up and running, you no longer need the significant other to support you. If you are happy overall, then you shouldn’t let an argument or a difference tear your entire relationship apart. Of course you will not be happy when the argument is occurring or when you are having problems in your relationship. But, this does not mean run away from the relationship. It means fight for it and you will come out stronger. It means learning from each other’s differences and changing for the better. As imperfect human beings, we will always have growing to do, things to change and make you a better person. But in a relationship it is all about growing together. It’s not about me or you anymore, it about us. When you are in a relationship you become ONE. You learn to deal with their flaws and you learn how to make their flaws strength by completing them. Who wouldn’t want a perfect relationship or a relationship like fairy tales. But at the end of the day nothing is easy and if it is easy it will leave easy. Remember that nothing worth having comes easy. In life, everything you do will be faced with obstacles. But it’s up to you to decide how strong you will be to deal with them and overcome them.
The problem with today’s relationships is that individuals let society influence them. Our generation has depreciated the importance of love and marriage. To be able to be in a long lasting relationship and build a strong bond that will lead to marriage and a family, one must be strong and not let others influence their relationship. Not family, not friends and not your surroundings. At the end of the day it is your life and you shouldn’t let people influence your decisions and your future. People will pretend they are happy for you but in reality they are not. They will try and break your relationship so you can be in the exact same shoes as them. They will try and brainwash you so you can see all the negatives things of your relationship without focusing on the positive things. If you honestly feel partying and your friends are more important than your future and the significant other you supposedly love, then I guess you don’t deserve a woman that will devote herself entirely to you. Ladies and gentlemen, never EVER compare your partner to others, especially your Exes. If you love them, they will never be in competition or even a comparison with other individuals.
Note: If you are not supporting your significant other monetarily the least you can do it’s support them mentally and emotionally. Show them you care, love them, respect them, protect them, give them your time and loyalty, and never ignore them. It is not hard to do the things that are for FREE when they are not asking for much. If you truly love someone, making them happy and not giving up on them should be the number one priority. Always remember that NO RELATIONSHIP WILL EVER BE PERFECT NOR EASY. But at the end of the day, you can’ keep fighting for someone that won’t fight for you.