I'm sorry but there is no way I would ever consider getting married to someone that has the mentality "single until married." Does that mean that when we are in a relationship it will basically be a fake title? Because being single means you can do what you want to because you have no one to respond to. So, if we are in a relationship you are just going to cheat on me left and right and "act" single knowing you are in a relationship? I think NOT! How can you ever expect someone to take you serious and want to marry you if you cannot even do your significant other right? How about you just admit you are not ready for the next step and stay single period. If single until being married is your mentality, I will safely assume you are not hubby material, definitely not boyfriend material and just a waste of my time.
I am sure a lot of people can agree with me that you must have a strong and healthy relationship built of trust, respect and communication before considering marriage. You have to be able to be happy and feel good about yourself to get married to someone that you are suppose to be with "till death do us apart." But, since a lot of people believe in divorces now days I guess I see why people think "single until married." Because some of you can divorce as much as you change condoms. Since our society has devaluated the true meaning of marriage people take shortcuts and give up easily. But not I! The person I marry will have to know that we are going to work it out. I know it won't be easy but it won't be impossible. Divorce is not an option and forgiveness will be the key.
Note: If you jump from point A to D then you are taking a shortcut. Shortcuts are for lazy individuals that are not willing to work for something that is worth it. Everything worth having does not come easy. If you believe single until married, you need to re-evaluate your views in life.