You know yourself better than anyone else. Therefore, you know your weaknesses so stay away from them. What you do not see, you will not want. If you do run into temptation, you shall be strong enough to walk away from it. After all, it is up to you to make that decision.
2. Please Yourself
This is pretty self-explanatory. When you have sex it is basically to get a nut. Especially if you are not having it with someone you love, because mutual feelings are not being shared and you are definitely not making love. So go ahead and satisfy yourself. At the end of the day the objective is the same one.
3. Sexual Satisfaction
If your sexual life is on point and your satisfaction level exceeds your expectations you will not have to look anywhere else. Keep excitement in the bedroom or even outside, try new things. If you try what each other wants then you can make every sexual experience a desire fantasy. We all have fantasies so make your partners come true by contributing to his wants and needs. Sex is not the most important part in a relationship however; it does play a big role.
Add excitement to your partner’s life by sending exotic pictures of yourself. These can be random pictures that he is not expecting. Therefore, he can be anywhere and you will most definitively be on their mind. Plus, he/she will be reminded what they got and where home is.
5. Stop Flirting
Flirting gives people the idea that you might be interested in them in one way or another.
It can be from getting to know each other or even just a sexual thing. At the end of the day it is a hint of interest. So stop all the flirting with other individuals if that is not your significant other. Flirt in your relationship like you are first lovers and keep the flames on.
This is the time that you spend with your partner and give them your undivided attention. Quality time is so important because is when you build a strong bond, trust and communication. Quality time is when there is full attention towards each other and nothing else matters but you two. This is the time where you can go on dates, explore new things together or even stay at home and keep each other company. This is time that you spend with each other and show each other affection and how much you truly care and love them. Quality time is essential to get to know each other inside out. Having sex all day everyday is not the way to keep a long lasting relationship.
This right here is HUGE because trust is the foundation on which a relationship is built. Trust is one of the keys for a successful relationship. Once trust is gone is extremely hard to gain it back and a relationship starts going downhill. Why? Because without trust there is no relationship. When you trust someone you believe them and have no doubt regarding honesty, integrity and credibility.
Communication is another key to a successful relationship. I mean lets be serious, how can you possibly have a relationship if there is no type of communication. In a relationship you must be able to interact with one another. This is the tool to express how you feel and the key to fixing problems. Communication allows you to express wants, needs, desires, ideas and feelings. Also, STOP AVOIDING SITUATIONS you must be able to confront them and talk about them or they will not be solved. A lot of you like running from them and say you do not feel talking about them. I am sorry but please grow some and face the situation before its too late. Remember, if you lose attraction you will lose communication and if you do not have communication you will lose trust and without trust there is no relationship.
9. Accept the fact that you are no longer single
Just how it sounds, you are not single so stop acting like you are and claim what’s yours. Tell any person trying to get to know you that you are not interested and stop sending the wrong signals. Have the courage to say no, put your foot down and grow some balls or ovaries. Your commitment is to your partner and if you are not willing to commit get out of the relationship now. Some things are not worth doing and lose the things that are. Most are temporary and for your entertainment, while some are a part of your life. I heard “faithful is easy and cheating is hard” and I agree because you start lying and getting caught up. After one lie there is another lie and another and so on. It gets really hard to keep up. So be in a relationship because you want to be in a relationship.
10. Not you, not me....It’s US
This is important because you can no longer think just about yourself and be selfish. A relationship is for two people and you have to be able to compromise and include both of you. Think what life would be like without your current partner. Although you do not need them you can want them and sometimes what you wanted becomes a need. Because you can love someone so much or it can develop into unconditional love, and you need them to be a part of your life. Some things we can live without but we choose not to because it is amazing the feeling that we get. Although people say some things are not forever I have to disagree. I believe if it is really meant to be it will last, you will make it work and overcome anything that comes your way.
Note: Please remember that there is NO perfect relationship. However, as long as it is perfect enough for you and both parties are happy that is all that matters. I wish you the best in your current or future relationship and I hope that if the love is real you can overcome every obstacle that will be on your way. Do not give up and remember NOTHING WORTH HAVING COMES EASY. Also if you cannot handle them at their worst then you do not deserve enjoying them at their best. Every relationship comes with negative and positive aspects you just have to be able to balance it out.